Work With Me
Private counsel
for serious men.
Whether you want one-on-one guidance, a structured course, or both — there is a way to work together that fits where you are.
01 / Private Coaching
One conversation can change everything.
Private coaching is for men who want direct, honest counsel on a specific situation. Not a framework. A personalized conversation. I listen carefully, I ask precise questions, and I tell you what I actually think.
Sessions are 60 minutes, conducted via phone call. I work with a limited number of clients at any given time to ensure the depth of attention each man deserves.
Strategy Session
$400 / 60 min
Book directly via Calendly.
Who this coaching is for
- Men who are seeing sex workers and want to understand what that dynamic is actually about
- Men who are in a relationship with a woman who is still working
- Men who are navigating a partner's past and can't stop thinking about it
- Men who are ready to take responsibility for their role in their relationship
- Men who are open to honest feedback, even if it's not what they expected
Who this coaching is not for
- If you want someone to tell you that what you're doing is fine and you don't need to look at it
- If you are looking for scripts or techniques to manipulate a woman into feeling something
- If you are primarily looking to vent or be validated without challenge
- If you are not open to hearing a perspective that may be different from your own
What Men Say
In their own words.
"I reached out to Mary because I got way too emotionally attached to an escort I'd been seeing for almost a year. I knew, logically, what the situation was, but emotionally I was completely wrapped up in it. I felt embarrassed even talking about it. But Mary understood it immediately. She didn't judge me or make me feel pathetic. She helped me see why I got so attached and why it hit me so hard emotionally. After talking with her, I finally felt like I could breathe again instead of living in my head over this woman I cared about, but was paying."
Anonymous
Private coaching client
"Before talking to Mary, I knew I was going to go crazy. My girlfriend is an escort. We met normally and started seeing each other, but the more serious things got, the worse I started to feel. I wasn't even upset about the other guys exactly. It was more like, how can this be real if she's having sex with other men all week? Was I actually different to her or just telling myself that? Mary was the first person who actually understood what I was struggling with. She didn't bullshit me or make me feel stupid for feeling attached. She helped me calm down, stop overthinking every little thing. That conversation alone took a huge weight off my shoulders."
Anonymous
Private coaching client
When Your Girlfriend's an Escort
You didn't plan on falling for her. But here you are.
You're in a relationship with a woman who is still working. The feelings are real. The situation is complicated. And most of the advice out there either tells you to leave or pretends the complexity doesn't exist.
What's happening in your nervous system is not weakness. What's happening in hers is not what you think. And the decision you're trying to make — whether to stay, how to stay, or how to leave — deserves a clear head and honest information.
This course gives you that.
Private audio course + companion workbook
When Your Girlfriend Is an Escort
Keeping your head while she works
The framework, language, and clarity to navigate one of the most isolating relationship experiences a man can face. Across 5 private audio tracks and a detailed companion workbook, you'll learn what's actually happening in your nervous system, what's actually happening in hers, and how to make a grounded decision about this relationship — on your terms.
- —What's actually happening in your nervous system
- —What's actually happening in hers
- —How to make a grounded decision about this relationship
- —Built specifically for the man in the relationship, not the man paying for the hour
5 audio tracks + workbook
Get This CourseShe's Working, You're Not Dating
You're seeing a sex worker. Something has shifted.
The line between transaction and connection is blurring. You're thinking about her between sessions. You're wondering what she actually thinks of you. You're starting to feel things you didn't expect.
This course is not here to judge that. It's here to help you understand what's actually happening, what you're actually looking for, and how to move forward with clarity instead of confusion.
No shame. No lecture. Just honest, direct information from someone who has been on the other side of that room.
Private audio course
She's Working, You're Not Dating
Understand the transactional dynamic and what it costs you
- -What you're actually looking for in these exchanges
- -The emotional cost most men don't account for
- -How transactional relating shapes your expectations of women
- -What clarity on this changes and what it doesn't
Notify me when this launches
Dating a Woman with a Wild Past
She told you. You're still here. Now what?
You're carrying questions you don't know how to ask. You're not sure if what you're feeling is jealousy, insecurity, or something more rational. You want to build something real with her, but her past keeps surfacing in your mind.
This course is for men who have chosen to stay and want to do that well. Not by suppressing what they feel, but by understanding it clearly enough to move through it.
Her past does not have to define your future together. But you need the right framework to get there.
Self-paced course
Dating a Woman with a Wild Past
Build something real without letting her history define the relationship
- -Why retroactive jealousy forms and how to work through it
- -What her past actually means and what it doesn't
- -How to have the conversations that need to happen
- -Building trust and attraction on honest ground
Notify me when this launches
For Any Man
The Polarity Code
Too nice to turn her on? That ends here. Whether you're married, single, or navigating a dynamic with a sex worker — polarity is the framework underneath all of it.
Why being kind, patient, and understanding quietly kills attraction
What polarity actually is — and how to create it without games or manipulation
How to get out of the friend zone and stay out
How to shift a low-desire dynamic without pressure or conflict
Why the same principles apply whether you're married, dating, or in a complex situation
The Polarity Code
5 audio modules and a companion workbook. Understand what drives attraction, what kills it, and how to shift the dynamic — in any relationship situation.
5 audio modules + workbook
$67
04 / Books
Read what others won't say.
Kindle / Paperback
How to Keep Your Man Out of My Bed
A High-End Call Girl's Best Advice for Capturing Your Man's Undying Adoration, Love and Loyalty
The result of Mary's long investigation into the root causes of infidelity. Practical, honest, and unflinching. Filled with real stories and direct advice on keeping desire alive.
$4.99
Get on AmazonPDF download
Nice is Your Super Power
Go from dumped to desired
A 19-page guide that will fundamentally rewire the way you show up with women. The exact shift required to move from being stuck in your head to being powerfully present in your body.
$7.97
Get the GuideQuestions