Hi Mary,   Thanks for taking the time to read my email. Before my ex and I became exclusive (but after we had sex), she slept with her ex-boyfriend—the same one she spent months venting to me about for his cheating and abuse. I felt blindsided when I found out, and it made me question […]

Hey, Mary,   I’ve been happily married since 2015, and I quit using drugs about five years ago. Before I got sober, I was so checked out my sex drive was nonexistent. But then, about a year after I got sober, it came back hard—like flipping a switch. It felt like I hadn’t had real